Kiki Camerena's Mom, Dora Camarena Soto Has Passed Away

On August 30, 2021, Dora Camarena Soto, the mother of famous DEA agent Kiki Camerena, passed away at the age of 97. The following are direct excerpts from the Calexico Chronicle’s tribute to Dora Camarena Soto. 

Dora Camarena Soto was born in Hermosillo, Sonora, Mexico, and had moved with her family to Mexicali when she was just 7 days old. There she met her first husband, Daniel Camarena, with whom she migrated to the United States in 1956 and settled in Calexico, where they raised their nine children.

Camarena Soto devoted herself to her family and in the process became one of the city’s better-known matriarchs. Indeed, half of her surname is enshrined in multiple local facilities, in honor of her son and slain U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration Agent Enrique “Kiki” Camarena. Providing for such a large brood proved challenging for the elder Camarenas. Yet it also provided opportunities for Camarena Soto to continuously push for her children to better their lives through education and work.

Today, her six living children, all daughters, enjoy professional careers in the public sector and are employed with various federal and state agencies throughout the state and region. “It was with her help and with her strength,” said daughter Myrna Camarena, of La Mesa. “She was a very strong woman.”

That strength and resiliency were also evident in the numerous Red Ribbon Week presentations that Camarena Soto participated in following the death of her son, Kiki Camarena, in 1985.

Following Kiki Camarena’s disappearance and death at the hands of Mexican drug traffickers, family and friends had taken to wearing red satin badges in his honor. Soon afterward, the red badges became the symbol of the Red Ribbon anti-drug campaign, the campaign’s website stated.

Traveling throughout the United States to take part in Red Ribbon Week events was a highlight for Camarena Soto, who did not have the opportunity to travel much when she was younger.

Accompanying her on those cross-country trips was her daughter, Myrna, who was then and continues to be employed by the DEA. The younger Camarena translated her mother’s Spanish-language Red Ribbon Week presentations to schoolchildren in at least 16 different states.

On one such occasion, Camarena Soto got to meet former President Bill Clinton at a school in Maryland. A photograph of the encounter is one of the many memories that Camarena Soto retained in her scrapbooks.

When the children were relatively young, their parents divorced, and it fell to Camarena Soto to singlehandedly raise her nine children. She would later get remarried in 1975 to Servando Soto, who died in 2019 from complications due to a chronic illness.

Camarena Soto’s penchant for speaking her mind also included explicit instructions for her memorial services. She was to be buried in a white coffin, have mariachis perform, and have the hearse bearing her coffin pass by the Camarena family’s home in the 600 block of Third Street.

When Camarena Soto’s children were younger, their house was always filled with the smell of her handmade tortillas, as well as the sounds of her singing along to her favorite Mexican songs.Certain songs would often prompt her to hike up the hem of her dress and start tapdancing, a talent whose origins remained something of a mystery to her children.

Similarly, some songs would remind her of her late sons Kiki Camarena and firstborn Eduardo “Lalo” Camarena, who enlisted in the U.S. Army and was deployed in 1965 to Vietnam, where he died of malaria shortly after.

The feelings of loss associated with the unfortunate deaths of two of her three sons appear to have been a common theme in the volumes of writings she left behind. One such volume was a collection of poems dedicated to the memory of her son Lalo and which she often carried with her.

Though Camarena Soto only had a sixth-grade education, she remained passionate about writing throughout her life, buying dictionaries to know the meaning of a word and how to spell it. She even would use napkins at the nursing home where she was residing to jot down her prose whenever the spirit moved her.

Going through some of those writings now, Bertha Tamayo said she is struck by how much her mother mourned for her two sons who died in an untimely and unfortunate manner. It also appears as if writing had provided Camarena Soto an emotional release.

“When she was sad, her escape was writing,” Tamayo said.

Dora Camarena Soto with her son Kiki.

Source: Calexico Chronicle